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Amazing! You’ve said so much in such a short post.

I’ve been looking at it as a problem of people imposing simple solutions on complex problems (which is an approach doomed to failure), but, like you, I’ve been struck by the so-called problem solvers are, at the end of the day, pursuing their own agenda.

In homelessness, for example, where many of the homeless have untreated addiction and/or mental health issues, there’s a population of advocates and/or activists who frame the whole thing up as a housing crisis (or the lack of affordable housing), and then they set up the homeless in tent encampments (to get the problem in everyone’s face) or they go with “housing first” approaches. Either way, they are enabling the mental health or addiction issue to remain untreated, while appearing to care deeply and appearing to be taking action.

When asked, a lot of addicts would say that their primary goal is to be drug free so they can live a more stable life, whereas for the advocacy groups the main goal is to have a roof over everyone’s head (even if they then continue to be an addict).

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Exactly! They don't get the root of the issue. Them being homeless is the end result of those root issues. There are some people who are homeless for economic reasons but they require different solutions.

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Mar 11Liked by Adam B. Coleman

called boutique altruism

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Mar 11Liked by Adam B. Coleman

Spot on, Adam. Insightful piece.

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Thank you

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You bet

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In Sudbury, one of the outreach NGOs post on their website that in November and December 2023, they had over 4,000 contacts with the local drug addicts. In each month they handed out hundreds of meals, drug enabling kits, Narcon kits and snacks. They also referred one addict in Novermber and two in December for detox treatment.

Are they making it easier to remain addicted or are they trying to get them off the streets? They say we have to meet them where they are at and over time, we will win their trust.

I am starting to have doubts.

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Mar 18Liked by Adam B. Coleman

They also say that we must wait for the addicts to hit rock bottom and want out of the lifestyle. Perhaps that is true. But, what they are doing is lengthening the time to reach that point.

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Rock bottom is the morgue.

In 2023, Sudbury had 32 unclaimed dead that will be buried by the city. That is one death for every three that were housed in either social housing or in flop houses.

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If that is indeed the case, then the options are stark. Endless enablements which await their likely demise or forced treatment which may or may not lead to anything but a repeat performance.

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I am as well

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"So, if you see someone shooting drugs into their veins on the corner, the issue isn't that their drug addiction has taken hold of them or the myriad of personal matters that led them to use drugs to cope. Of course not. The issue is that they are shooting up with dirty needles!" I read this and thought, 'That's LA!' and of course, you went on to cite LA for the dysfunction that it is. We are the City of the woo-woo dogma 'that what you focus on expands' - a mantra repeated in yoga classes. Well, it is true; what you focus on expands. The city council is all about 'harm reduction' but is silent on quality of life issues. They are all about expanding social services while reducing the quality of life for those not on the edge. We are shamed for not wanting to ask a clerk to open up a cabinet to get toothpaste. We are shamed that we don't want to experience being treated like a possible criminal, even if we have no desire to steal. A major tourist spot combines small vendors with a picturesque outdoor shopping mall. Today, I was shocked to snag a convenient parking spot during what should have been a busy time. I noticed foot traffic was down by 30%. The man waiting on me said there is now an uneasy feeling. The demise of this vibrant area, as well as a previous hot spot for apparel, will be blamed on some greedy 'boogeyman' and not their failed policies. People camp and shoot up drugs openly. I do feel bad for them and wonder what happened that they have taken such a dark path. Coming from a family where alcoholism was so prevalent, I assumed the coroner would automatically rubber-stamp it as the cause of death. So I get it. But I am glad education and healthy living provided a lifeline out of such a dark destiny instead of plunging me into the darkness with the anchor of substance abuse. But this is all big business. It is where greed meets need.

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LA sounds like the place where common sense goes to die lol

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And demonic phoenixes rise out of the ashes! 🤣

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Mar 12Liked by Adam B. Coleman

Your opening statement reminds me of something sci fi/fantasy author Ursula Le Guin said in a book: "The problem in trying to do good is that the mind comes to confuse the intent of goodness with the act of doing things well." This is so true of the problems you highlight. And we see too often added to that sin is the problem of an inability to admit failure and subsequent doubling down on the harmful action.

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Mar 12Liked by Adam B. Coleman

The comparison to enabling is perfect. In reality, enabling is just a lack of courage.

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Mar 11Liked by Adam B. Coleman

Thank you for this column! People I know are making the same decisions as you mention occurs on Dr. Phil. Then they decry 'enablers.' I guess they just cannot bring it into their hearts to be 'mean.' They are well meaning but ineffective.

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Thank you for taking the time to read it!

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I am old enough (70's) to remember the general purpose use of the drunk tank to sweep up everybody who was under the influence in public, typically late at night. I don't think that the police even charged anyone much of the time, they let them out the next day once they were no longer under the influence - and no, you would not enjoy the stay. I even remember my father's story of spending a night in jail in North Dakota - he and his friend were going back to camp and were waiting at the station for the morning train, but they weren't allowed to be idle over the nightime hours, so the sheriff had them sleep in a cell until it was time to catch the train back to camp.

Yes, we need more low cost housing, lots and lots of it, - but there is less than no point building low cost housing to have it destroyed by incompetent / irresponsible / criminal tenants. And I do not care if the irresponsibility / incompetence is the result of mental disease or substance use disorders. Only if the tenants are just poor does low cost housing alone work. If they are unfit due to actively abusing substances or their unwillingness to maintain their treatment for their mental issues, there is no reason to have them destroying cities and neighborhoods. Move them out.

Set up camps for them in old heavy industrial sites, abandoned farms / ranches, etc, where they don't have much opportunity to destroy stuff. I grew up doing a lot of camping and spent one summer officially homeless - I lived in an out of the way storage structure / lab near where I worked when I was a student. You actually don't need much space to survive.

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Good idea, and worth a try. There must be many sensible, effective solutions to the societal problems we face, but politicians don't seem interested in really solving the problems. I wonder why.

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I am reading a book by Thomas Wolf written in the early 70s. This review of the book tells it best: “Mau-Mauing the Flak Catchers” describes how various minorities groups in San Francisco would intimidate government programs into giving them money. Wolfe calls the process “mau-mauing,” after the Mau Mau Rebellion that took place in Kenya in the 1950’s. Wolfe is superb as he shows how a combination of bureaucratic ineptitude and white guilt combined to give money to groups who might not have been pursuing the agendas of the anti-poverty programs."

On a serious note, I am sure you have seen the video of the girl being beaten in St. Louis. I recognize the area. We have to have serious conversations. We are letting generations of humans descend into madness with a terrible illness that is a derivative of decolonization rhetoric.

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There have been many minors getting beaten, hospitalized and even murdered in and around schools. In the St Louis violence, there was one brave girl who pulled the aggressor off the girl she was beating on the pavement, then the brave girl was attacked.

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That video really shook me. I grew up five minutes away by bike. Things were violent in the 80s as well. My dad told me as a teenager to let someone kill me in the parking lot instead of getting in to be tortured and killed. The HS responded with some anti-bullying nonsense. That was attempted murder. I think this all arises from Neo-Marxism drivel. While I am still sickened by what happened, I know that millions were killed in China, in Russia, and in Cambodia by fellow citizens who believed they had the right to do so. To me, it is a similar formula played out differently.

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Your dad was right to give that advice. Yes, the slamming of her head against the pavement was attempted murder, or possibly will be murder as she is still in critical condition.

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I just hope there is no brain damage. I am heartbroken for her parents as well. I wonder about the impact of having this violent act featured in world media about their daughter. Or if they are so shocked they have no idea. And yes, my dad's advice was good. One should never get in a car. As my dad also said, if they kill you in the parking lot, there may be witnesses.

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The other possibility is being hurt but not dead. I made the instant decision back in the early 80's to not go with the guy pointing his gun at me and trying to get me back to my car. I figured even if he shot me at least it was at my apartment complex and I would probably be found immediately, maybe alive. I chose wisely. He ran, but I would rather be killed than have some freak with control over me to do whatever.

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The unintended consequences of liberalism.

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Or perhaps they are not so unintended? Many think that the real hidden agenda of leftism/liberalism is to burn down our entire society and culture and rebuild it into something else. If correct then the truth about liberalism is that they really done care whether their ideas work or not because successfully solving problems is not their real goal. History is replete with so many examples of failed leftist ideas. Perhaps there is merit to this argument and leftist goals have nothing to do with actually solving problems.

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Caring means tough love, while living a civilized life means not walking down the street through excrement and needles. I see a likely return to involuntary institutionalization for those unable to care for themselves, but with many checks and balances to prevent abuse.

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How are “criminality, drug addiction, or illegal immigration” the big problems we face. Crime levels are low relative to where they have been during my adult lifetime (born 1959). Drug addiction is like gun violence, a perennial issue and I suspect immigration is more political than anything else.

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They are big problems in difficulty to manage or resolve. That's what I'm saying. I also didn't make any reference to historical comparisons.

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You implicitly made a reference to history by using the modifier "big." Big compared to what? There is always crime and drug use. For these to be big problems they would have to be large compared to what we have seen in the past

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Big compared to other problems. Big compared to needing a stop light on a busy intersection.

That's how you interpreted it but I already stated that it's not in reference to time.

I'm not sure if you're just looking for an argument or not especially when you're hyper analyzing one word and I already politely corrected the misunderstanding. I have no interest in arguing if that's your intention.

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I agree with everything except with the concept that enabling bad behavior begins from a place of genuine concern. I think it’s 100% self-serving and/or cowardly and shows *no* concern for the enabled whom they are slowly hobbling.

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I think there is a slight misunderstanding...

I'm saying prior to enabling, it often starts because there is a legit problem and the person is concerned. It starts as concern but eventually turns into enabling the problem.

Not every time or every situation but in many circumstances that's the case.

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Anyone who uses blanket terms like 'leftists' is not worth reading from my perspective.

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Anyone who makes a blanket determination over "worth" of perspective because of a term is not worth reading from my perspective.

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This is a profoundly well articulated piece. It is, I believe, one of the core problems in our world today. Parents enabling destructive behavior, communities and governments enabling destructive behavior, etc, etc., etc. All in the name of "compassion."

In the end, enabling--especially in the way you highlight with the "dirty needles" nonsense -- only makes it worse. If you really care about someone, you will do what you can to help them STOP destructive behavior--not engage in destructive behavior more "safely." Destructive behavior is destructive behavior--and if we care about people, we would want to help them get off self-destructive paths and back onto successful, meaningful, happy paths.

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