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An awesome and obviously timely column Adam. Thank you.

One line really stood out to me: "As I get older, I appreciate my mother more." I understand that completely. As I've gotten older and look back I have a so much more mature and refined appreciation for my Mother. I wish I had seen, understood and known what I know now earlier in life. It's not that I didn't appreciate her 20 or 30 years ago, but the depth of my understanding of what it means to appreciate her has grown exponentially every year that I've gotten older. I hope she knew that I appreciated her and the literally incalculable number of things that she did for me. And I hope now that she's gone she is well aware of how much I appreciate everything that she did for me and meant to me. Everything that I became and everything that I have is a direct result of my Mom. Happy Mother's Day to my Mom, your Mom and all the mothers out there! Whatever else a woman does with her life, being a Mother is a unique and special Blessing to everyone they touch, especially their own children.

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Thank you for your response. I do appreciate it.

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What a great tribute; she sounds like a remarkable woman. She must be so proud of you.

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Thank you and she is.

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Thank you! I am very proud of him!

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The esteem that a man has for his mother is a great indication of how good of a husband he will be.

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yes it does!

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This essay reminded me of my Mom. She was always my best cheerleader, even though I was an independent thinker who saw possibilities other kids did not see. Sadly, my Mom passed away in 1990 but her spirit lives on my memory. Thank you for a moving essay on the eve of Mother's Day.

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Thank you for sharing your story too!

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All children should be blessed with a mother as understanding and genuine as your mother. May God bless her and please thank her for us; because of her, we get to have some time with you. Happy Mother's Day to all who love and sacrifice for others.

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Wonderful recognition of an obviously great Mom. I was fortunate in much the same way. She’s a treasure.

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Thank you!

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This is a beautiful tribute to your mother. It's clear how much her unconditional love and acceptance mean to you. The details about your musical tastes and introverted nature paint a vivid picture of how she supported your individuality.

The ending about appreciating her for who she is and returning the acceptance is a lovely sentiment for Mother's Day. She's bound to be touched. Happy Mother's Day to your Mom!

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Thank you and Happy Mother's Day to yours as well!

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Thank you, Adam :)

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Thank you!

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Bravo. My husband has weathered a very nasty competitive field with his independence intact because of his great mother. Glad to hear this always. God bless.

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I just would like to add, this mother who was a blessing to my husband was also the greatest mother in law in the world. She knew what love is, period.

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You are very fortunate.

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We both are!

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